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I know I’m supposed to be Chill Bi. Easygoing, unbothered, nothing too deep. But the truth is, I’m tired of acting like I don’t care. I’ve spent enough time trying to shrink myself into something easier for other people to understand. So here’s where I’m at. I like what I like. I feel what I feel. And I’m not going to apologize for any of it. Think of something that feels real to you. Something that makes you feel like yourself. Not what you’re supposed to want, but what actually feels right. Go toward that. It’s easy to play it safe. To hold back. To stay somewhere in the middle. But that’s not where anything meaningful happens. I’m not saying it’s going to be simple. It won’t be. But if something matters to you, the effort is part of the deal. If you’re not willing to go through the hard parts, maybe it wasn’t meant for you. Or maybe you just weren’t ready to show up for it. Either way, here’s what I’ve learned. The things that matter take something out of you. That’s what makes them real. Slay.